There r 2 ways how u THINK u should deal with it
- Ask him "Darling r u upset? Is your mood off because of me?”
- “Ok. Fine. If u don’t wanna tell just go to hell.!”
Men don’t like to share their problems coz it makes them feel vulnerable. Just like women like to discuss and share their problems men like to think about it alone. At those times he would be thankful to you if you can take care of yourself and stop being an emotional burden for him. Give him space. Do your own thing. Don’t pester him. No matter how Great a communication u had wid him in the past he will have his ‘cave days’. If u wud follow him into his cave insisting that he shares he can be very rude to you. It’s an old tribe-women’s theme “Don’t follow him into the cave or u will get burnt by the dragon!”. For example, he might NOT want to say those things like “leave me alone” , “ why r u looking for trouble. I didn’t say anything”, “Just knock off” .. n blah blah…but he will say it!
And then how to ask him what happened to his problem. I will tell u in my next post!
Do you wan to know what to do when your man has mood problems?
Do you realize how women ruin the relationship by ourselves?