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So once again I traverse the deep seas of my innate passion that at times submerges itself beneath a calm n naive facade but is raging n thrashing in the realm of my heart !! And so the mystery of Catgirl unfolds once again to all who are still mesmerized by my perseverance and many more who are yet to be in awe of it !! Catgirl working undercover as a teacher N Blogger henceforth pronounces herself a hard-core feminist !!! A girl out to protect the "woman-cause' in the world of self-loving male; A girl who would do anything she is capable of to restore the image of women which has been tarnished, even in the modern society ! Catgirl Strikes again !!! (my logo since 12 years)

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Man n Mood !

When men are in their notorious ‘mood’ it’s BEST not to attach any connotations to it. It’s just their self-imposed exile so they can work things out, a period of digging-in-their heels and not leaving the ground till they know which direction they should head towards to conquer the next forte. Some men do chill out or unwind through sports, playing themselves or watching a game. A third, rather despicable way might be to just go ahead and get drunk and have a one night stand, though that is most likely to be when they r in a good mood not a retreating one!

Women like to share when they are upset, sad and lonely. While men do EXACTLY the opposite. They just don’t want to share let alone with a woman who is his special someone. Reason is simple. They want to project a Herculean image of themselves in front of their Lady Love. No matter how strong they are from outside, or even emotionally, they are terrified of voicing out their worries since from childhood they were programmed to ‘be a Man’  and ‘boys don’t cry’. They want to be the ultimate provider, self-assured; a mentally, financially and physically stable symbol of dependence that a woman can ever have. At the same time most men these days detest women depending wholly and solely on them. Well, let’s face it- you woman. You do want your best female friend to share with u her every worry but would u like her to be dependent on you for all her needs? NAH! U wud run if not miles away from such an insecure woman who’s crying every time of her lost love, her overweight problems or her kids.

Similarly, women who cry at the drop of a handkerchief and expect the hanky to be picked up by their partner for their eyes to be wiped off are terribly mistaken. Men like to provide but they don’t like nurse you unlike women who like to nurture and mother their partner. Men are always more attracted to self-assured, confident (but not proud), easy going and intelligent women. Ofcourse I cry, sometimes even JUST to feel there is someone out there to dry off my tears, but it’s better not to take it to heights. Even you wouldn't enjoy your tears if they r no longer ‘precious’ to someone.


Muhammad Wasif Javed said...

Interesting take :) Liked it!

Muhammad said...

well a bit one-sided post ! The point is men don't share everything with women not to protect their image but rather they know that whatever they're going to say in a state of stress and anxiety will come back later only to haunt them ! As they say women can't keep a secret in their stomachs (especially when its something about someone else)

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I'm Farsilla said...

actually i agree with u! i cry a lot to b honest, n for H if he feels to share with he will, but when im sad he will try to b there for me. well different men hve different ways to handle problems ;)


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