"CATGIRL" -Yup! That's Me...!!

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So once again I traverse the deep seas of my innate passion that at times submerges itself beneath a calm n naive facade but is raging n thrashing in the realm of my heart !! And so the mystery of Catgirl unfolds once again to all who are still mesmerized by my perseverance and many more who are yet to be in awe of it !! Catgirl working undercover as a teacher N Blogger henceforth pronounces herself a hard-core feminist !!! A girl out to protect the "woman-cause' in the world of self-loving male; A girl who would do anything she is capable of to restore the image of women which has been tarnished, even in the modern society ! Catgirl Strikes again !!! (my logo since 12 years)

Wednesday, November 28, 2018

Lawfully Positive

I have observed a lot the underlying cause of tensed in-laws relations. And I have come to the conclusion that the single issue in our lives these days is that we do not let people choose freely. This means we try to impose our will on people.  This thing has been put in our minds since birth. If we look closely then most women were not granted the power to choose. 

 Let me give you an example. Imagine our mother-in-law knew how to drive a car . She could have gone to the market to do grocery or picked up our child from school. This would have been a very convenient thing for a working mother. She would have brought money to the table, pursued her interests while  catering to the small wishes of her mother-in-law.  A mother-in-law who is physically and mentally fit, full of life and positivity can give a lot to her daughter in law.  
Now what happens actually is that most mothers have sacrificed their will during their stay with in laws.     They were used to obliging to every instruction from not only her husband but his parents as well.  This sacrifice is so deeply embedded in her mind that she takes pride in it. Eventually she projects this behaviour on to her daughter in law.
 Instead of rectifying the sacrifices she made in the name of being an obedient DIL she follows a pattern and gives example of her sacrifice as something superb and positive. Thus continuing the suppressive cycle. 
The age when a woman needs to choose her own lifestyle, have the home budget in her hands, choose how to decorate her bedroom, living room drawing room; decide what should be cooked ,how she wants to educate her children, which area her family should live in, constitute all the things that a woman innately desires.  Unfortunately all these things that she was not granted in her ripe days  when she was in her 20s even till middle age, she snatches from her daughter in law too.  We  need to break this pattern and give every woman the freedom to decide when her age is right. 
This would be translated into great positivity and then transfer into the next generation where a satisfied mother in law would help her DIL to accomplish her own dreams because she would have gotten those things when it was her age. 

 I hope my analysis will clear a lot of relationship issues in future and all women reading my article would try to give out positive Vibes and a lot of space to the woman with whom they live under one roof. It's time that we give each other wish to perform freely.

Monday, December 5, 2016

Hey everyone !

I m finally back  after 3 years.  It was a tremendous journey with the always-happening  Oriflame.   I am  at Director designation now. Yes!.. AlhumduLiLlah.

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Are you a jealous woman?

Have u been in a relationship n suddenly became utterly possessive about your man and then decided to act totally like the ‘bitchy’ woman u never thought u would be? And to top it all off he suddenly started showing more interest in whatever absorbed more of his time and ignited your jealousy even more. Right?

NO it cannot be just another woman. It can be his male friends, his favorite sports, and even a car!! Anything that seems to consume his interest more than u tends to spark off jealousy in you. Why r we women like this? Is there a way out of it? I know I know.. 90% of u reading this would be like “ I dun care a damn. I’m not jealous!” Ok if that is not the case would u then let your special someone go out alone with an (female) old school mate or to chat wid some colleague online while ignoring u? Tell me only if it Has happened with u…dun give me predictions !!

The problem with us women is that we tend to compare ourselves. Those of us with an inferiority complex instinctively know our short comings (physically or mentally) and get insecure. While those of us with a superiority complex cannot even let a woman be compared to us in a better way, instead of insecurity we have this dogmatic belief that everyone is below us. As far as I am concerned my defense mechanism guides me to be neither of the lot. If a woman is preferred over me I just think out her bad points and then KNOW in my heart that I m not worth being compared to her and after that it really doesn’t matter At All if my best friend, special someone or even my husband wants to spend time with her (as long as it’s not a relationship). I would love to invite her over and be friends with her. Well, why not? If you r sure of yourself you would love very person your beloved likes…..
So Stop being jealous.
And if someone leaves you for another then oh MY GOD…aren’t two ‘worst’ people made for each other too? Leave the 2 creeps on their own.
Go to the parlor to groom your already ‘booty-full self ' *winks*!

Saturday, January 25, 2014

A woman asks...

A woman asks "Am I beautiful"?  Not because she is unsure. Even if she is the prettiest girl on earth, always bestowed with compliments from every friend, she will still ask YOU coz ur opinion matters the most to her. You should feel proud and more of a man that your thoughts about her are so damn important. A girl can go to such lengths on your comments that if her dimpled smile lights up a whole ballroom and you just tease her and say that u don't like the 'Dents in her cheeks' she wud even stop laughing ..
She asks ur opinion because she wants to know if she is beautiful enough for you or not?  When there is a girl who knows she is not pretty ..seldom handed out compliments... has a lot to be desired in her body she will still ask.. And when u praise this girl's semi-moulded body and her half-good looks she knows you are exaggerating but she still loves it b/c if she is beautiful for you she knows she is the Beauty Queen of the world... Just one phrase below to sum it up...

"You don't love a woman because she is beautiful..
a woman is beautiful because you love her..."

Friday, July 12, 2013

GOLD is OLD !!

I don't know what’s the problem with the Easter mindset. Why are they so stuck to Gold as the most prized possession throughout their lives and for generations to come. In films, dramas, and real lives u keep hearing these phrases

Husband to wife:  Main apni bike baich dunga jub tak job nhe milti. Lekin tum apni mangni ka locket mut baichna”

Male child to mother: Amma main perhai k baad extra tuition day lunga per tum apna zewar mut baichna.

Mother to girl child:  “main logon k kepray silai kerk teray liay kuch jama ker lungi ,,, baki meri shadi ka zewar hay who tujhay dungi nishani main”

Oh yaar lets see it objectively in a different perspective.

Case 1: Bhai if your wife sells her locket you both can travel on bike, find a job , even buy a car AND make better jewellery later.

Case 2: if the mother sells off her gold, her son will have less to worry after those tiring university classes.  Even if he does a part-time job it will add to savings, on the other hand your gold just sits in the cupboard, while you toil and twist.

Case 3: Maa jee why are you working your old ,cramped bones and those God-gifted eyes to stitch clothes while you can sell off those sparkling pieces, invest in some business and make even better JAHEZ for ur daughter without spreading hands in front of anyone.

 I mean what's the EMO thingie with gold. A lot of things are traded on engagements, weddings , birth celebrations, but out of these only GOLD is kept as NISHANI (oh GOD why) . Why can't we keep some clothes or pics or some artificial piece. Afterall it is about reminiscence right?

What good does a piece or set of metal lend to your life other than hanging around your neck (or ear)  after making YOU work your bones and nerves to breaking point? Those tears associated with gold sets being given away, the 'ehsaan' part of trading gold for something, making it all a BIG deal and momentous human (read womanly) sacrifice?

 Array yaar invest in something worthwhile, get your own roof above your head by investing against gold and enjoy your old age with constant investment return instead of watching your daughters and Bahoos wear it and thinking of moving u out of the house sinceyo u have nothing of your own ?

Moral : Gold is Old my womenfolks. Be proud to trade it for your hubby’s job or son’s education or even installments for your new home. You can make a lot more gold anytime in life, but the chance of investment knocks once only. *adios*

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