"CATGIRL" -Yup! That's Me...!!
- CATGIRL !!
- So once again I traverse the deep seas of my innate passion that at times submerges itself beneath a calm n naive facade but is raging n thrashing in the realm of my heart !! And so the mystery of Catgirl unfolds once again to all who are still mesmerized by my perseverance and many more who are yet to be in awe of it !! Catgirl working undercover as a teacher N Blogger henceforth pronounces herself a hard-core feminist !!! A girl out to protect the "woman-cause' in the world of self-loving male; A girl who would do anything she is capable of to restore the image of women which has been tarnished, even in the modern society ! Catgirl Strikes again !!! (my logo since 12 years)
Sunday, March 7, 2010
THAT SHIP!! (part # 4)
We keep giving of less wanted things. When our partner actually puts his/her foot down demanding from us, we feel he/she is not only being ungrateful to our favours, (s)he has refused to pay us back the way we deserved. We feel challenged to bring about a change in ourselves to please our partners in ways that we don’t feel comfortable with. This gives rise to several questions a person asks when left alone after a heated debate.
Will I always be on the giving end?
Will my partner keep demanding from me if I accept this time and never pay back the favour?
If I am going to Change my tastes, needs, expectations for my soul mate, will I finally change my whole self?
Will I be the same person (s)he initially loved ?
This leads to another barrage of questions towards the past and future of this relationship.
Does (s)he love me at all? If so why does (s)he want me to change ?
Has the love died now and we see each others' true self (initially blurred by the cloud of love) and can’t live together anymore?
Is it time for a break-up? Time to move on?
The only safe answer is It’s time to think and re-think!!
Not to think of wrapping up, but about the relationship as a whole and how important it is for you. It’s time to list up all the good/bad and extreme things about each other. But it’s also necessary to give TIME to your partner ALONE. Get some space yourself too. Keep safe distance (total cut-off is detrimental and certainly not necessary if you are too attached). It’s time to get your bearings with the world around you, to seek your friends and well-wishers to get a reality check.