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So once again I traverse the deep seas of my innate passion that at times submerges itself beneath a calm n naive facade but is raging n thrashing in the realm of my heart !! And so the mystery of Catgirl unfolds once again to all who are still mesmerized by my perseverance and many more who are yet to be in awe of it !! Catgirl working undercover as a teacher N Blogger henceforth pronounces herself a hard-core feminist !!! A girl out to protect the "woman-cause' in the world of self-loving male; A girl who would do anything she is capable of to restore the image of women which has been tarnished, even in the modern society ! Catgirl Strikes again !!! (my logo since 12 years)

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Why Boys Don't Cry ?


Y don’t guys admit that they cry like us too?? It is because they are much too afraid of having a rejection or even a ridicule. Why? Because CRYING is womanly.. ..feminine. When girls cry we look sooo DELICIOUS .When we cry we can make a man fall in love wid us….But if I were to see a bleary eyed guy  am sure  my drive for him will fall by 40% (unless he is crying coz of someone’s death). 
Perhaps that is why they dun wanna admit their love or liking for someone till they r absolutely sure that they won’t get NO in return. 

Women are much more capable of handling difficult life situationsthan men because they cry. They are not afraid of showing their weak side to the world. Boys are. This ‘be a man’ psyche has been grilled in their minds since time immemorial and it’s this reason that they cry only widin their hearts- very rarely translating it into a pearl that comes out of the eye and leaves its impression on the cheeks. Does this last line make u hear ‘poetic’? True. A lot of poetry has been denoted to the eyes n tears of a woman. It’s beautiful to see a woman cry and even makes us  feel attractive when we cry in front of a lover, but put this whole frame around a masculine figure and all you end up wid is the phrase ‘he needs to grow up!’
We girls can be cruel too (by thinking of crying men as weak) !

Tell me do u feel safe n protected with a man who cries when u don’t call him back ? Not me !
Adios!
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If u like this post u may also want to know that how to expect less from ur man to save yourself trouble later!!
Also do you want to know why men have their 'silent treatment' moods? Wanna figure out why your boyfriend has distanced and how to deal with it??
Why do men withdraw their love for sometime>??

13 comments:

I'm Farsilla said...

i do share problems with him but there are times i bcome very rude n i will shut down every conversation that he wanna talked -___- but 1 good thing, he tells me when he is unhappy about my attitude

Silla

Tauqeer said...

You used to write well but now you don't even do spell check on your posts.

I am worried for you.

The Cat Hag said...

I actually feel it's quite masculine for some (not all, haha) men to cry because it means they are in touch with their emotional side. :)


xoxo,
Addie
The Cat Hag

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Kiran Ashraf said...

hy, great blog. yea men act tough by acting that as if they dont know how to cry. c the thing is that crying is not bad even if men do it but yea guys shouldnt be like all sobby n all. they are n should act masculline. great post. congrats u have got a new follower n i hope u like my blog too so follow me if u like it :)

Revolutionist said...

Hmmmm.Excuse me, Guys believe that tears r private emotions, so they do not share tears with world, they cry more than girls perhaps but they cry privately.

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chocolatemilk said...

Haha, thats not true for all guys though... Some arent afraid to express their feelings! Trust me :)
Nice post though.

djinn said...

Boys don't cry because if we did, all you women would be dead!

Men are masters of logic where woman are masters of emotions...

Although these two elements are much like water and oil, don't mix...

What do I mean, well emotion nullifies all logic and thus one cannot think logically when overcome by emotion...

Now consider back in the caveman days when a saber-tooth tiger came looking for some food in the local village...

Let's put the woman in front of the tiger, oh, there she goes crying, unable to control her fear and letting her emotions dominate...

Let's put the man in front of the tiger, he stands there, he's scared half to death, he wants to cry, he starts panicking and then he remembers what his father once told him, you cannot think when you are emotional and emotions aren't going to save your life one day, thinking will... So he holds his composure and thus is able to begin thinking, he see's a rock nearby, grabs it, wrestles the tiger and bashes the poor kitty's brains out...

The women is still crying...

You make yourselves looks so glamorous, I am no feminist hater but as you clearly are one, please remember where to give respect where due...

And let me finish off by saying, a real man does cry, but he only does so when he is certain that there is absolutely no fucking way he is getting out of the shit he is in, that's when a real man cries...

So let me tell you women something, if you have a real man, which I am sure you feminists want, do try and understand that when he does cry, those 'pearls' could be traded for souls in the afterlife; if that could define the value of those tears...

Perhaps you should reconsider which of the genders treasures 'the cry' more, the one who uses it loosely or the other who uses it in great despair...

Just a thought...

From a boy...

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