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So once again I traverse the deep seas of my innate passion that at times submerges itself beneath a calm n naive facade but is raging n thrashing in the realm of my heart !! And so the mystery of Catgirl unfolds once again to all who are still mesmerized by my perseverance and many more who are yet to be in awe of it !! Catgirl working undercover as a teacher N Blogger henceforth pronounces herself a hard-core feminist !!! A girl out to protect the "woman-cause' in the world of self-loving male; A girl who would do anything she is capable of to restore the image of women which has been tarnished, even in the modern society ! Catgirl Strikes again !!! (my logo since 12 years)

Sunday, July 24, 2011

EGO *!*

Another thing that is a problem is EGO! Who wud win a fight? Who wud start talking first? Who wud send the first sms, make the first call, send the first chat msg. after things have been stormy? Isn’t that a mountain of a task? Soooo difficult to let go of EGO no matter both of u r dying to contact each other? I have usually seen that in beginning it’s the man who kneels down first ‘coz for them it’s about conquering a woman’s heart and this conquest alone makes him have an ego-boost. Later on the kneeling part remains with the woman FOREVER. She finds herself calling back, saying sorry, getting teary eyed, following his profile and his routine everywhere!

 Ladies, once u r won, u r WON-by HIM- n You have Lost the battle. If you can manage it just don’t let them know u r head over heels in love with them, that just takes away the spice and the headiness from the race towards winning you. Most men operate this way. Once settled into a relationship they CHANGE. In the beginning it’s for the better but later on it becomes worse.
That is called ‘taking for granted’ !
Your 2 pence?
Please do read  why men have mood changes

-What happens when men withdraw love.


Hamza Bin Ladin said...

Been too egoistic is bad, so is having so ego. You have to find a balance, maintain your self-esteem and take incentives calmly and wisely=D

Muhammad Israr said...

i think love and ego cannot reside in the same heart... self respect should be there but not ego ...

Mishi said...

you know girl there is a very thin line separating ego and self-respect...where the former is poison for relationship , the later is a must to have the strong base of the relationship..when you let of your ego for somebody you gotta make sure you dont strangle your self-respect..coz this is the point you will be takne FOR GRANTED!!!

Shaan said...

This is so true ..

At first ,it is the man who kneels down .. But for the rest of the life,it then has to be the woman ..!

You should have written something more conceiving the sub parts of ego in our society and make a little more elaboration.

Blue Pearl said...

Hope you're well, inshallah

رمضان مبارك |
Ramadan Mubarak
اللهم بلغنا رمضان |
Oh Allah, allow us to witness the month of Ramadan

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Hamza Bin Ladin said...

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ateeq mughal said...

loved the 'kneeling part'.
it was so true.
loved the whole write up, exactly.
and u have a new follower :D..

CATGIRL !! said...

djinn: Thank u sir
Hamza: thank u sooo muchiie for the award
@Ateeq: thank u for the praise . will keep entertaining u . i promise :-))

Kiran Ashraf said...

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Nostalgic said...

I agree with Shan.

There is a very thin line between ego and self-respect. Nice post btw :)

Anonymous said...

Hey girl, thanks for checking out my site. I'm so a follower- great post. I totally 100% agree. Don't ever let yourself be taken for granted!!! Don't let him forget why he found you so special and make him fight for you til the end.

Tanvi said...

Something very thoughtful :) Nice post!
And you have a nice blog :)


Jack said...


You are inciting rebellion. LOL. But it is so true. EGO is the most dangerous elements to kill any relationship. One should not compromise on self respect but NEVER have EGO.

Take care

CATGIRL !! said...

Thank u Nostalgic and Tanvi
Caity: ur comment made my day
Jack: hmm,,, ask me i hav been put to the EGO test many times by my counterparts!

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