Another thing that is a problem is EGO! Who wud win a fight?
Who wud start talking first? Who wud send the first sms, make the first call,
send the first chat msg. after things have been stormy? Isn’t that a mountain
of a task? Soooo difficult to let go of EGO no matter both of u r dying to
contact each other? I have usually seen that in beginning it’s the man who
kneels down first ‘coz for them it’s about conquering a woman’s heart and this
conquest alone makes him have an ego-boost. Later on the kneeling
part remains with the woman FOREVER. She finds herself calling back,
saying sorry, getting teary eyed, following his profile and his routine
everywhere!Ladies, once u r won, u r WON-by HIM- n You have Lost the battle. If you can manage it just don’t let them know u r head over heels in love with them, that just takes away the spice and the headiness from the race towards winning you. Most men operate this way. Once settled into a relationship they CHANGE. In the beginning it’s for the better but later on it becomes worse.
That is called ‘taking for granted’ !
Your 2 pence?
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Please do read why men have mood changes
-What happens when men withdraw love.
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Please do read why men have mood changes
-What happens when men withdraw love.
15 comments:
Been too egoistic is bad, so is having so ego. You have to find a balance, maintain your self-esteem and take incentives calmly and wisely=D
i think love and ego cannot reside in the same heart... self respect should be there but not ego ...
you know girl there is a very thin line separating ego and self-respect...where the former is poison for relationship , the later is a must to have the strong base of the relationship..when you let of your ego for somebody you gotta make sure you dont strangle your self-respect..coz this is the point you will be takne FOR GRANTED!!!
This is so true ..
At first ,it is the man who kneels down .. But for the rest of the life,it then has to be the woman ..!
You should have written something more conceiving the sub parts of ego in our society and make a little more elaboration.
Hope you're well, inshallah
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loved the 'kneeling part'.
it was so true.
loved the whole write up, exactly.
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I agree with Shan.
There is a very thin line between ego and self-respect. Nice post btw :)
Hey girl, thanks for checking out my site. I'm so a follower- great post. I totally 100% agree. Don't ever let yourself be taken for granted!!! Don't let him forget why he found you so special and make him fight for you til the end.
Something very thoughtful :) Nice post!
And you have a nice blog :)
Cheers,
Catgirl,
You are inciting rebellion. LOL. But it is so true. EGO is the most dangerous elements to kill any relationship. One should not compromise on self respect but NEVER have EGO.
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