Asking your man to do something!

How to ask your man to do something for you without putting a dent on his ego? Hmmm.. tough one right? I know those of you who googled it are probably married ones wid a lazy ***** of a husband (ya i know at least when he is acting tired u do feel like abusing him silently) while others who have been in a long term relationship where the dewy eyed beginning has long evaporated face the same prob.
(Once again i give a deduced understanding below of "Men are from Mars" by Dr. John Grey )

Woman often complain that men have lost their gentlemanly ways and don't do anything when asked -not even their fair share of work like laundry, dishwashing, room cleaning etc. Usually women themselves have relieved their men of this responsibility. We take pride in giving him everything on the plate, spoon feeding them. This is our way of showing love. Do I need to tell u guys again to only give as much as you know you can receive? I cannot emphasize more the importance of it.

So well all you have to do is change the wording of how you put it before him.
Like instead of saying "Can you please remove the wet towel from the bed?"
You can put it this way
"Will you please remove the wet towel from the bed?"

Yes. I know you think I m fooling around. How can a mere exchange of interrogatives change the way he behaves to your plea? Actually men like to think that they CAN do any and everything. Ofcourse they CAN remove the towel. do you doubt them?? But why on earth should they do it it at your command? But when you show that you KNOW they can do it but are 'requesting' them as if you are asking their permission as 'will you' then it changes the way their mind perceives it *hmmm..so she really needs me to do it out of my own will. It's upto me to do it or not. Fine no harm in helping dis girl!*


Well, it's fairly easy to understand it when i put a very important quotation in reverse order. Think of a man proposing you  -----
"Will you marry me?"  (Ahh..the blush on your face)
And imagine him asking you this way
"Can you marry me?"
(Whoa..wat was dat? You jerked away)

Ofcourse you can marry him but asking it in a 'permission granting' manner makes all the difference in the world. doesn't it?Try it sometime in other instances when you want him to listen to you,but make sure you know he is not in his mood swing.

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